{"id":709,"date":"2017-01-30T03:00:28","date_gmt":"2017-01-30T10:00:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/leogaumont.com\/?p=709"},"modified":"2018-03-30T12:52:01","modified_gmt":"2018-03-30T18:52:01","slug":"should-i-educate-my-children-at-home-fears-and-concerns-series-part-1-by-leo-gaumont","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/leogaumont.com\/index.php\/2017\/01\/30\/should-i-educate-my-children-at-home-fears-and-concerns-series-part-1-by-leo-gaumont\/","title":{"rendered":"Should I Educate My Children At Home? Fears and Concerns Series (Part 1)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=5o4rJ3_Hx-E&amp;list=PLj4SybUmO6Duw1kEWA4dWby8ii9WFhcbf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Click here to watch this entire series&#8217; video playlist on YouTube.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"jetpack-video-wrapper\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Successful Home Schooling in Alberta: Should I Educate My Children At Home? Fears and Concerns\" width=\"660\" height=\"371\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/5o4rJ3_Hx-E?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p>At every stage of home education you\u2019re going to encounter fears and concerns, beginning with the one we are going to address today. Fears and concerns are to be expected whenever we determine to follow an unfamiliar path.<\/p>\n<p>Now, if we consider fears and concerns to be \u201csymptoms\u201d, all we need to find is a \u201ccure\u201d for each. There\u2019s an antidote or \u201ccure\u201d for both. The antidote for a concern is a solution, and the best solution is always simple. So, I\u2019m going to offer you some simple solutions for your concerns.<\/p>\n<p>What do you think is the antidote for fear? It\u2019s called faith. We either believe or we\u2019re scared. That\u2019s what it boils down to. We are not to confuse worldview and religion with faith. I believe that faith is tied to truth and truth is determined by God, not man.<\/p>\n<p>Everybody has a worldview, and everybody is religious, even when they \u201cinsist\u201d they are not, but not everyone has faith. Wherever faith is lacking, fear is experienced.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m going to discuss some of the most common fears and concerns of home education in this series. I will be coming at them from a Bible-based faith perspective and largely as an un-schooler. You\u2019ll understand more about this perspective as we proceed.<\/p>\n<p>In the pre-structured period of a child\u2019s education, the question is: \u201cwhy should I home educate?\u201d Here\u2019s the simple answer: because it is the best option, most of the time. I cannot truthfully say that it is for everyone, but it most certainly is for those who gave up their job or career to be home with the children.<\/p>\n<p>The other thing to consider is that the alternative isn\u2019t so good.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody can know a child better than a loving parent, and you are already his or her greatest teacher.<\/p>\n<p>You potty train them. You\u2019ve taught them the most difficult thing they\u2019re ever going to learn in their life, and that\u2019s called language. You\u2019ve taught them to speak intelligently.<\/p>\n<p>You train your children for the first six years, and then you determine to let them be taught by some \u201cprofessional\u201d who knows very little about them. We do this without questioning the system or truly knowing the system\u2019s or the teacher\u2019s world view perspective. And we are truly unaware of what is being taught, even if in a private school that claims to share your world view!<\/p>\n<p>By default, you are your child\u2019s greatest teacher, because nobody knows or cares for a child more than a loving parent. As truly unique individuals, children need the consistent individual attention that only a parent can provide. That\u2019s all there is to it.<\/p>\n<p>Now, when I ask parents why they are not teaching their children at home, I get a number of answers. Listen carefully to these reasons for not home educating.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI could never do that.\u201d \/ \u201cI don\u2019t know anything about it.\u201d \/ \u201cI\u2019m too busy.\u201d \/ \u201cI\u2019m not patient enough.\u201d \/ \u201cI\u2019m not educated enough.\u201d \/ \u201cI only have grade ???\u201d \/ \u201cI couldn\u2019t teach high school.\u201d \/ \u201cI have to work.\u201d \/ \u201cI have a career.\u201d \/ \u201cI can\u2019t afford it.\u201d \/ \u201cI believe the government has that responsibility\u201d or simply, \u201cI am not interested or I don\u2019t want to.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Have you noticed that every one of those \u201cexcuses\u201d start with \u201cI\u201d?<\/p>\n<p>Parenting demands sacrifice. This should be an obvious fact.<\/p>\n<p>When you gave birth, your life changed. Whether you\u2019re the mother or the father, you suddenly stopped being number one. Any healthy individual should realize that in order to properly parent a child, that child must take priority in the parent\u2019s life.<\/p>\n<p>Now children always believe they are the centre of the universe, which is precisely what we have to \u201cfix\u201d when parenting. It is truly sad when parents, who somehow missed this important lesson, put themselves first, whether by failing to provide for the child, through career ambitions, or unabashed selfishness.<\/p>\n<p>Parents have the freedom to choose. The choice is, will you sacrifice yourself for the sake of your children, or will you sacrifice your children for the sake of yourself?<\/p>\n<p>If you give this some serious thought, those are the only two options parents have. No matter what decision is made, something will always need to be sacrificed, but only the sacrificing of \u201cI\u201d can be legitimately considered to be a sacrifice. Sacrificing something other than \u201cI\u201d is actually more of an offering than a sacrifice! Think about that!<\/p>\n<audio class=\"wp-audio-shortcode\" id=\"audio-709-1\" preload=\"none\" style=\"width: 100%;\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"audio\/mpeg\" src=\"https:\/\/lg-wp-media.s3.amazonaws.com\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Fears-and-Concerns-1audio.mp3?_=1\" \/><a href=\"https:\/\/lg-wp-media.s3.amazonaws.com\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Fears-and-Concerns-1audio.mp3\">https:\/\/lg-wp-media.s3.amazonaws.com\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Fears-and-Concerns-1audio.mp3<\/a><\/audio>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Click here to watch this entire series&#8217; video playlist on YouTube. At every stage of home education you\u2019re going to encounter fears and concerns, beginning with the one we are going to address today. Fears and concerns are to be expected whenever we determine to follow an unfamiliar path. Now, if we consider fears and &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/leogaumont.com\/index.php\/2017\/01\/30\/should-i-educate-my-children-at-home-fears-and-concerns-series-part-1-by-leo-gaumont\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Should I Educate My Children At Home? 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